Modern Love- Why People get married

Modern passion

For generations, conjugal connection was a societal institution based on money, authority and home associations Finally came the Enlightenment excellent of marrying for love, and with it a fresh set of expectations. Couples hoped to find a partner who could satisfy all of their physical and emotional requirements. They wanted toddlers, a shared household and a lifetime of happiness along. However, these new aspirations frequently led to catastrophe. According to research conducted by anthropologist Gabrielle Zevin ’85, people who have less education and more difficult economic prospects are much more likely to divorced, enter intimate relationships, and experience accidental pregnancy.

Some researchers believe that these trends indicate a “marriage turmoil.” Some think that this is only the most recent stage in a much development of how we view romantic relationships.

More and more people are thinking about ties differently than ever before, whether they’re looking for long-term colleagues or Tinder deadlines. These are just some of the latest additions to present love: hooking up with a relaxed encounter, dating for sexual and probably more, residing together before getting married, and using smartphones to text constantly.

Despite the changes, many people still want to get married. They still value marriage’s legal benefits, such as the ability to file jointly for tax credits and access to health insurance. And they continue to insist that the process requires romantic love. A wheelchair-using teenager develops an unlikely romance with the man hired to look after her young half brother, a woman finds a life partner at a bar, and more.

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